What should they eat at your funeral?
Tradition says that my friends or my church (or my family’s church) would furnish a pot luck luncheon for after the funeral. Casseroles, meat and cheese tray, tea sandwiches, dips, desserts. Southern comfort foods. And having been to more funerals than I like, I can say that it IS comforting to have plates of the same food I grew up with there as an offering of sympathy in grief.
But if *I* got to pick the menu, I would have local craft beer and a couple food trucks set up (gourmet burgers and wood fired pizza). With a selection of italian deli cookies and middle eastern pastries for dessert. To share my favorites in memoriam, one last meal with the people I loved.